Become less intimidating
Here are 4 ways become more approachable–respected, not feared: Check your image: Body language speaks louder than words.Bad posture and a grimacing face will repel people.But first, let’s dispel the number one cliché about dating intimidation: being too attractive.Sure, if you have the face of Angelina Jolie and the body of Pamela Anderson, it’s going to take a little extra courage for a man to make his move.The way you dress can speak volumes, but be careful about the story your clothes are telling.You want to feel comfortable and confident, but if you dress in a way that’s too overt and revealing, you may attract the kind of attention that you don’t want, while inadvertently scaring off the kind that you do.
If you put out a “can’t-be-bothered” vibe, people will do exactly that – not bother.
It may be something as simple as the difference between being sensual and sexual, but take a long, cold look at what you’re wearing before you leave the house, and think about the partner you’d like to see yourself with.
If your look and your imagined partner match up, be confident that you’re heading in the right direction.
For all their bluff and bluster, men aren’t always as confident as they may seem.
Sure, they’re noisy, pushy and often far too boisterous for their own good, but it can take a lot of forced bravado – as well as a little imbibing – to get them to act that way.