Dating a guy with no career my boyfriend has a profile on a dating site
By 30, family-oriented women are getting antsy about finding a guy to settle down with (tick-tock and all that), but a lot of the guys their age aren’t on the same page.So this one’s for the ladies, but the dudes should pay attention, too.In today’s world, there are very few reasons to be completely unreachable for any length of time.
We use our 20s to get all our partying and hookups out of our system — good for us.
He’s learned nothing from the past and has no plans for the future.
This can be an endearing quality, but it will get frustrating if you’re trying to plan a life with someone incapable of commitment. Still, when we’re drawn to people, we tend to make excuses for their faults. How can you expect to have an adult relationship with someone who’s never left the nest?
Even though he’s the life of the party when he’s around his buddies, he clams up at work functions or “adult” dinner parties. Whether he’s skipping the foreplay or racing to the finish line, he hasn’t learned that relationship sex is about teamwork.
He either feels inferior or he’s uninterested in expanding his social circle. Guys don’t always like having to go to your sorority sister’s wedding or your family reunion, but if you’ve told him about it, he should have marked his calendar.
If this guy can’t manage to get a drink at a crowded bar or he’s too timid to tell you he likes a finger up his ass during sex, he’s never going to amount to anything.