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Besides, there probably isn’t a single person in this world who isn’t sexually attractive to anyone.– but it’s quite myopic to claim that because you personally don’t find someone attractive, nobody else does.That said, buried deep within the obfuscation and rationalization that Batey’s lawyers are presenting here is actually a nugget of truth that anti-rape activists have been repeating for years: Many campuses have a really unhealthy and dangerous climate when it comes to things like binge drinking and sexual assault.Acknowledging this and working to change it, however, does not mean excusing those who commit rape. If someone was actually asking for you to have sex with them, then it was not rape.But more to the point, this still denies the person their right to autonomy.
It would take pages to unpack all the horribly cruel and twisted logic here, but I have trouble believing that these rapists are just so incredibly selfless that they would, out of the kindness of their hearts, have sex with someone who they have no interest in just to help that person out.In 2013, two then-students at Vanderbilt University, Brandon Vandenburg and Cory Batey, allegedly raped an unconscious female student on campus.They used a cell phone to capture footage, which also shows Batey urinating on the victim and using racial slurs.The reason I used a female pronoun is because this is typically only applied to female survivors. Probably because women are presumed to be so irresistibly appealing that men cannot restrain themselves – therefore, those women were “asking” for whatever it is the men did.But we didn’t ask for you to have such poor self-control that you cannot keep yourself from catcalling or raping us.